Love-making continence is mainly a tantric practice which has been implemented as a way of enhancing the experience of love, deepening this connection through the awareness and control of our sexual liquids. This means that a man will avoid ejaculation and a woman might avoid the release of mind-blowing sexual fluids during sexual peak as well as managing to lessening her menstrual secretions.
This happens particularly if the retention is usually accompanied by adequate techniques for raising energy to the superior degrees of the person through certain yogic exercises and intense intellectual effort, there are many methods. Ejaculate retention becomes a great energy levels through transmutation, rather than ultimately causing somatic disturbances.
The first important observation can be that the ejaculation for a person and specific squirt for the woman is not necessarily connected to the orgasm. Through a process of biological transmutation, these chemicals are converted into a powerful strength as they are directed upwards through the body. Sexual strength is extremely creative and associated with the second chakra. Once woke up and harnessed it is energetic gold for your entire appearing.
Tantric massage is an excellent approach to help achieve the love-making continence. It helps to firstly become aware of your energy, then to extend it and control it, directing it at will. Most importantly however, it helps one to awaken your heart that may be the most important factor in love making by means of sexual continence. As like automatically raises the erotic energy to higher levels of this being.
Sexual performance can be dramatically increased in the practice of sexual continence by way of increasing the duration in lovemaking which awakens a ton of orgasms for men and women. States of pleasure happen to be intensified which creates a good stronger force of attractive force between the lovers.
Other pros include the regeneration, rejuvenation and energisation of the body, higher states of creativity; cleverness and charisma and in the long run we discover the spiritual aspect of our being which desires an understanding and experience of take pleasure in. We may also ask by ouselves what is the difference between sex and lovemaking… an opening of the heart creates a deeper connection and sense of freedom.
All the control of sexual energy for women is often spontaneous, and only in rare cases requires minimal training. However for males this control and the the halting of of ejaculation for extended periods (weeks, months, years) will take continuous and diligent training.
It can be a good idea to slow down or stop and focus to utilise various techniques which will help in controlling the energy at this stage specifically by contracting the sexual muscles (so it’s useful to tone these up). Brain focus on the movement with the energy within the body combined with control over our breath are also helping in this way to sublimate the energy. After a couple of seconds, penetration can continue bit by bit or as we feel comfortable while controlling the energy.
When practising sexual intimacy with sexual continence it usually is important to begin with foreplay, 10 to 30 minutes is very good especially to awaken a situation of love, awareness of all the increased sexual energy and excitation. Slow penetrations help us absorb in the beauty of the lovemaking. As the state increases and we look and feel we are getting to the point of no return, this is when we need to be more attentive.
Stops and mental focus can be done as frequently as you feel to prevent the ‘near limit’ situations. Significant training can be done by extensive and firm contractions for the anus muscle as long as feasible. After making love it is always crucial to stay together for a short while in awareness in advance of parting and then it is cautioned to keep as much distance as it can be for the next few a long time. By doing this, each partner is dynamised and the two enthusiasts will become more and more attracted to the other person. Polarity is key to a relationship which is filled with eroticism.
There’s a simple tendency for natural breasts enlargement in women who practice love with love-making continence as well as an increased sex appeal. Women experience a long period of decrease in menstruation and related symptoms as well as preventing irritating pregnancy.
Although there are some rules that really help us to take control, pure intuition is the best way to practice and in any case we should avoid becoming mechanical. What happens to the semen when men practice love-making continence? This is the most frequent question raised by men whenever they hear about sexual continence for the first time. Long term seminal retention leads to biological transmutation of sperm. This makes the opportunity for the huge energy that is produced to become sublimated to the superior degrees of the human being.